Friday, April 30, 2021
We Will Recover Oyo's Money From Contractors Who Failed To Deliver - Makinde | Southwest-frontier News
Security: Makinde To Engage Man O’ War Nigeria To Secure Primary, Secondary Schools In Oyo State | Southwest-frontier News
Thursday, April 29, 2021
There Must Be Justice, Fairness & Equity For A United Nigeria - Senator Kola Balogun | Southwest-frontier News
Apete, Akufo, Ajibode And Environs Will Get Better Power Supply - Sen Kola Balogun | Southwest-frontier News
APETE, AKUFO, AJIBODE AND ENVIRONS WILL GET BETTER POWER SUPPLY
April 29, 2021
The Senator representing Oyo South District in the 9th national Assembly, Dr Mohammed Kola Balogun has again assured his constituents, particularly the residents of Apete, Awotan, Akufo, Ajibode and environs that they will soon have improved power supplies because he has written to the Transmission Company of Nigeria (TCN) about their plights and would follow it up.
In a press release by his Special Adviser on Media, the Senator said this in response to the letter written by the Community Development Association to him on the pathetic situation of power supply in the areas, which has affected both the economy of the people and their lifestyles for a long time.
According to Senator Kola Balogun; "In the letter signed by the Chairman, Engineer Rasaq Fabayo and Alhaji Ajadi Oladeji, the series to letters and dialogue with the IBEDC Management about the marginalization of the communities in terms of poor electricity supply proved abortive as nothing has been done concerning the complaints till date. I have taken it upon myself to see to the alleviation of these challenges by following up with the Transmission Company of Nigeria and other relevant agencies of government to put an end this nightmare"
Apete, Awotan, Akufo, Ajibode and environs are majorly youthful communities and by implications, their productivities and lifestyles have been grievously affected by this pathetic power failure. I assure our people that respite shall soon come and we shall all laugh last.
Rotimi Johnson -Ojasope
Three Police Officers Sustained Injuries After Gunmen Opened Fire On Senator's Convoy In Kogi | Southwest-frontier News
The attack happened on Monday along Okene-Lokoja road in Kogi state. The senator was returning to Abuja from his hometown in Edo state when the gunmen rained bullets on his convoy.
Speaking with journalists on Wednesday in Abuja, Ordia said he is still traumatised by the experience.
“I’m seriously traumatised by the experience,” the lawmaker said.
“We were coming from Edo state, somewhere between Okene and Lokoja, when we met these suspected bandits. They opened fire on my convoy. The gallant policemen had to immediately return fire.
“The other security vehicle behind had to immediately join them and they were able to repel the suspected bandits. During the exchange, three of the policemen sustained gun wounds. One of them was critically injured. We had to immediately rush them to the Federal Medical Centre in Lokoja, Kogi state.
“They did their best and were able to stabilise them. I immediately put a call across the Federal Medical Centre in Abuja to be on standby. One of the policemen had a bullet lodged close to his liver.
“We met another setback around Abaji. There was traffic because of the incidence and because we had to save the lives of the wounded policemen, we decided to make a move. They opened fire on us. Some vigilantes had to join the policemen and they were chased into the bush.
“That was how I survived that attack. If you see all my vehicles, you will see how the bullets damaged them.”
The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) senator said the federal government must take urgent measures to secure lives and property across the country.
Wednesday, April 28, 2021
Makinde's 2Yrs In Office Far Better Than Your Wasteful 8Yrs - Oyo PDP Throw Blows At APC | Southwest-frontier News
Tuesday, April 27, 2021
President Muhammadu Buhari has bowed to pressure, begged President Biden to send US soldiers to help Nigeria’s insecurity.
Buhari on Tuesday urged the United States to reconsider relocating US Africa Command (AFRICOM) from Stuttgart, Germany, to Africa, nearer the Theatre of Operation, admonishing the international community to support Nigeria and the sub-region in tackling growing security challenges to avoid spillovers.
Mouthpiece NGR reports that President Buhari’s plea was contained in a statement issued on Tuesday by Femi Adesina, the Special Adviser to the President on Media & Publicity.
The statement quoted President Buhari to have said “in a virtual meeting with the US Secretary of State, Mr. Anthony Blinken, said AFRICOM, which partners with countries to counter transnational threats, should be relocated to Africa to strengthen ongoing efforts to check the security situation, with likely effect on other nations.
"The security challenges in Nigeria remain of great concern to us and impacted more negatively, by existing complex negative pressures in the Sahel, Central and West Africa, as well as the Lake Chad Region.
“Compounded as the situation remains, Nigeria and her security forces remain resolutely committed to containing them and addressing their root causes. The support of important and strategic partners like United States cannot be overstated as the consequences of insecurity will affect all nations hence the imperative for concerted cooperation and collaboration of all nations to overcome these challenges.
“In this connection, and considering the growing security challenges in West and Central Africa, Gulf of Guinea, Lake Chad region and the Sahel, weighing heavily on Africa, it underscores the need for the United States to consider re-locating AFRICOM Headquarters from Stuttgart, Germany to Africa and near the Theatre of Operation,’’ he said.
“The President said Nigeria will enhance collaborations in all forms, with friends and strategic partners, to work together for greater security for all, which remain the most significant condition for overcoming the existential challenges
Security: Our Administration Will Continue To Work With Police & Other Security Agencies - Makinde | Southwest-frontier News
Monday, April 26, 2021
Makinde Launches Special Security Joint Task Force Against Kidnapping, Banditary, Others | Southwest-frontier News
Sunday, April 25, 2021
OYO GOVT WILL NEVER OWE PENSIONERS DURING MY TENURE – MAKINDE
April 25, 2021
The governor of Oyo State, Engr. Seyi Makinde has disclosed that the State government would ensure that pensioners in the State would never be owed their pensions and gratuity.
The governor also vowed that his administration would have offset the N56billion accumulated gratuities the past administration owed pensioners before his tenure of office lapses.
These promises were made at the Annual Conference of the Nigerian Union of Pensioners (NUP) that was held at Abuja recently, where the governor was honoured by the body as the Pensioners’ Friendly Governor and conferred with an Award of Excellence in Governance.
While appreciating the gesture of NUP, Oyo State governor, Engr. Seyi Makinde, who was represented by his Executive Assistant, Administration and General Services, Reverend Idowu Ogedengbe said the award was an encouragement for the governor to commit more, to the welfare of pensioners in Oyo State.
“When we came into administration in May 2019, we promised the people to serve them with sincerity, probity and accountability, we promised to run a government of inclusiveness and we are very mindful to let the people know the challenges we were facing when we came into office, we had quite a huge liability of arrears, pensioners’ gratuity was amounting to about #56billion and we did not want to give any excuse for non-performance.
“We decided to start off-setting these gratuities and as of today, we have paid out of that amount, N11.7billion, which translates to an average of over N500million naira every month, we desire to do more because it is our firm belief as an administration that you do not muzzle the mouth of the horse that trash the corn, our pensioners deserves the best, they have used their active years to to serve the State, now that they are out of service, we owe them the responsibility to ensure that they live a good life.“Our desire is to ensure we clear all the backlog as soon as it is possible and to ensure that we do not leave any outstanding gratuity to future administration, to date, we ensure that all our pensioners are paid on the 25th of every month, just like every other government worker in Oyo State civil and public service, when we came in, initially, a sum of N100million was committed towards payment of pension monthly, we increased it to N180million in June 2019 and as at January 2021, it has been increased to N235million monthly, we plan to do better.”
The Chairman of the occasion, who is former governor of Kano State and Chairman, Senate Committee on Establishment and Public Service, Senator Ibrahim Shekarau, while presenting the award, said governor Makinde has shown sincerity in leadership and was worthy of the honour from the pensioners.
The event which was packaged by the national executive council of NIgerian Union of Pensioners had in attendance, the President of Nigerian Labour Congress, Ayuba Wabba and his members of executive, States executive members of NUP, invited political office holders, among whom was the Special Adviser to governor Seyi Makinde on Labour Matters, Comrade Titilayo Sodo.
In his comment, The Secretary, Oyo State Chapter of the Nigerian Union of Pensioners, Comrade Olusegun Abatan said the present administration in Oyo State has done enough to be celebrated as the friend of the pensioners in the State.
He called on his members to give their support to the government of Engr. Seyi Makinde so that the people would continue to benefit from dividends of democracy accruable from the programmes and policies of the State.
Saturday, April 24, 2021
OGUN TRADITIONAL RULER, OBA ADETOKUNBO TEJUOSO ARRESTED OVER ROMANCE SCAM
The Ogun State Police Command has arrested the Olu Of Kemta, Oba Adetokunbo Tejuoso in Odeda Local Government Council, following the alleged romance scam and multiple forgery.
Olu Kemta is a member of Egba traditional Council who was recommended by the last administration and upgraded from Baale to a Coronet Oba during Senator Ibikunle Amosun’s regime.
The arrests came after a lady petitioned Ogun state police command.
According to a source, Olu kemta, an Oba without a wife or a child, specialises in defrauding his unsuspecting victims mostly wealthy ladies via social media through Facebook and Instagram with a promise of marriage.
“He is also Fond of taking photographs with influential people and beautiful places to promote his ambitions on his Instagram and Facebook pages” one of the victims said
Our correspondent learnt that several petitions had been submitted to the Ogun state traditional institution by some of his victims but were ignored
Oba Tejuoso always look for wealthy ladies through their online profiles and photographs to determine his approach.
It is sad to discover that the sacred traditional institution has become the final bus stop for fraudulent people because of lack of integrity checks and balances by the government and tradition council before approval is given
BREAKING: Nigerian troops eliminate IPOB commander, others
Operatives of the Nigeria Police Force and their counterparts from the Nigerian Army and State Security Service, SSS in a joint operation, in the early hours of Saturday stormed the operational headquarters of IPOB members in Awomama Village Oru East LGA of Imo State, killing scores of the militiamen.
The group are responsible for the attack on the Imo State Police Headquarters and the headquarters of the Nigerian Correctional Service on 5th April, 2021.
They have also carried out a series of violent attacks on security personnel and formations in the south east and south south of the country.
An intelligence source told PRNigeria that the security forces approached the base of the group, they came under rapid fire from the group.
“In a bold and clinical response, the joint security forces fought back gallantly. The Forces eventually neutralized the overall commander of the group in the Southeast popularly known as Ikonso Commander and six other armed fighters of the insurgent group.
Commander Ikonso is known as the Vice President designate as well as the coordinator of all the militia operations of the group. He was the mastermind and coordinator of the attack on the Imo Police Headquarters and several other attacks on security and military personnel and facilities.
“The operation is part of deliberate effort by the Police and other security forces to quell the activities of IPOB members in Imo State and other States of the South East and South South region of the country,” the source added.
After the fierce gun battle, the security team recovered the remains of Ikonso Commander and the six (6) of his fighters. Several sophisticated weapons including six(6) AK47 rifles, hundreds of ammunition of different caliber and lots of charms including bullet Proof charms were recovered from them.
At the time of filing this report, three policemen and one army officer are receiving treatment, having sustained serious bullet injuries during exchange of gunfire with the group. (Daily Nigerian)
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Wednesday, April 21, 2021
Tuesday, April 20, 2021
His Manhood Is Too Big For me, Separate Us - Woman Begs Court To End One Week Marriage | Southwest-frontier News
His Manhood Is Too Big For me, Separate Us”- Woman Begs Court To End One Week Marriage
The mother of three told the court that she decided to marry another man after her first marriage failed.
Aisha, in her statement revealed that as tradition demanded, she first moved into his parents’ house and finally into her husband’s home where they had sexual intercourse.
“When he came, we had sex but the experience was a nightmare. Instead of enjoying the sex, it turned out to be something else because his penis was too big,” she told the court.
She disclosed in her narration that after the not-so-good sexual experience because of his big manhood that left her private part in great pain she endured it and took native medication prepared by her mother who assured and encourage her that she would get used to it.
“Two days later when he came to visit me, we had sex again, but the experience was too much to bear. It was then I knew that I could not continue with the marriage because of the size of his penis.” she added
However, the husband has agreed to his wife’s confession as he further pleads for the one-week-old marriage to be dissolved
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Monday, April 19, 2021
EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION
Dele and Shayo (not real names) have been married for a few years. Shayo is a housewife, taking care of the kids, while Dele goes to work every day. Dele came back from work one fine evening, expecting to get “something light” from his wife after dinner, only for her to say “Dele I have already masturbated a few hours ago, so I am not really in the mood right now”.
This was the fifth time Shayo was telling him this in three weeks, so obviously she had replaced “Dele” with her “fingers,” using her newly purchased vibrator hidden away somewhere in the house. Dele was so angry at being deprived of his right. Being a Christian, he didn’t believe in cheating on his wife, and he didn’t want to be put in that situation so he wanted her to stop using that “evil” vibrator right away. Out of fear, she threw it away, but couldn’t overcome the urge soon and started using her fingers to please herself, Dele couldn’t take it anymore when he discovered and that was the beginning to the end.
This story is same or slightly different with many other experiences of couples in various homes. Some partners accept it because they feel it’s much better than “adultery”, while some see it as a slap on the face. The interesting part is men rarely talk about it amongst themselves. Women are more open in discussing it with each other, while couples don’t even want to mention it at all. Really interesting, isn’t it?
Couples should be open about their sexual wants and desires, as well as their dislikes. 85 % of men and 45 % of women who live with their spouses are said to have masturbated. Vibrators, sex machines, sex toys and even sex dolls are steadily replacing human contact and encouraging masturbation addiction. Many people would argue that this is more common with men, than women, well that is not our debate for today, but on how it affects both genders and its aftermath in a relationship. Masturbation is derived from a Latin word “manstuprare,” meaning “to defile one’s self by hand”.
Many couples I have counselled or spoken to say that masturbation is a very uncomfortable topic to broach. Imagine walking in on your partner masturbating? So many questions will be running through your head at once. Apart from immediately casting and binding the devil, there are several thoughts that rush through your mind, number one being who or what is my partner thinking about while at it? Some couples may wonder if masturbation can ruin their relationship. Other couples don’t even want to discuss it.
Masturbation often carries a stigma. Some religious, cultural and spiritual traditions associate masturbation with immorality or sin.
But the truth is masturbation can become an addiction which can cause harm to your relationship with several signals stated below.
When you get to a point where you inflict self-injury on yourself due to this habit, it can lead to other challenges in your relationship.
If your spouse uses masturbation to cope when they are under stress, especially when work pressure increases and next step is to quickly get a private place to “handle” themselves, then this is a big issue because apart from leading your partner to other stress management behaviour it can quickly escalate into a big problem, imagine having to get to the toilet anytime you are under duress.
This can create a feeling of rejection if one’s partner finds solace in masturbating rather than sexually connecting with their partner. If your partner finds it very easy to replace physical contact with you, even when you are available.
We operate in a religious environment. The weight of guilt that presents itself with this act, especially in connection to our religious and spiritual beliefs (if you have any) will lead to secrecy or in some cases creating and maintaining a double life around your sexual lifestyle.
One of the criteria for addictive behaviour is frequency of the act, sometimes partners who want to stop and are unable to do so, sometimes unconsciously increase after trying to make effort to stop due to the helpless feeling it gives.
Putting religion or cultural beliefs aside, it is an unhealthy habit with emphasis on the word habit, not only as an individual but for couples. Masturbation is very common among adults, yet it remains a challenging and uncomfortable topic
It causes feeling of inadequacy, especially when the partner discovers about it, they tend to blame themselves, assuming that their spouse or partner is bored or unhappy with them. Masturbation is a problem that interferes with day-to-day life, especially when it is used to substitute real intimacy with another person.
Your partner may feel that his or her partner has been keeping secrets. What couples should understand is that couples have different viewpoints. People who masturbate may do so in different amounts. There is nothing like an acceptable number or not acceptable number. where we can establish you have a problem with masturbation is when you can’t achieve orgasm with your partner through intercourse, the best is to seek help from a therapist. They can work with you and your partner to iron out major concerns affecting your relationship, or smaller issues you are struggling with.
So many couples if they can be sincere struggle with masturbation. It all depends on if you feel you should tell your spouse that you masturbate. But you shouldn’t allow the feeling of inadequacy over take you if you discover your partner masturbates, as long as you can maintain a healthy relationship where both individuals communicate effectively to understand each other and know exactly when to come in. Adult individuals are entitled to their own thoughts, even what our society might deem repugnant. Basically what should be your priority which is my major rule for relationships is that all your sex, including fantasies, should be with each other.
Is it possible to stop masturbation, especially when it is affecting your relationship? I would say yes! Definitely, you can stop it.
Instead of trying to restrict your partner’s behaviour for instance because restriction with words like “you must stop this habit at once’ will only aggravate issues. It is a matter of discipline and acceptance to try and stop, once there is a will there is a way. If you desire to help your partner to stop, then the best method is to
Talk to them about the habit.
Find out what triggers it (for instance work pressure).
Ask them how you can help them stop it.
Give mental and moral support; don’t make them feel ashamed.
Try to turn their attention to something else, so that they get to use their time constructively.
Do it slowly, change cannot happen overnight.
Know when to seek professional help.
Learning to stop masturbating is a process and this process takes time. To overcome this behaviour you’ve practised for months and sometimes even years, you personally need several coping strategies in order to save your relationship and cause less damage to show them you really want to stop.
Keeping a full schedule will cut down on the opportunities you have for masturbation. Find activities that are self-soothing, engaging, or exciting. I personally recommend joining a gym, start running or jogging, exert yourself physically.
You will also need a healthy diet for your body, caring for yourself may reduce urges or provide motivation to resist. It can also provide a new focus for your energy and efforts. You also need to be accountable to someone you trust, if you can find a support group. That would be excellent and a right path to recovery. It can also help you develop new behaviour. You need to limit your lone time, wear extra clothes at night to cover everywhere as much as possible, make it difficult for the temptation to be successful. Stop everything that triggers the urge, like porn, sex magazines and so on, and most of all, be patient with yourself while healing yourself. Good luck!
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